Waiting It Out at the Darjeeling Roadblock

By: sachilefever on March 29, 2006 - 9:37pm

I am feeling better! Finally. It's been too many days - though not unexpected here. On our way up to this mountaintop town of Darjeeling, I had some time to recover a little from the rattling jeep ride (Lee mentioned the strike). The word was out that at 6:00 the road would be opened, so we waited it out below the road block on the side of the road with hundreds of others.

I'm getting used to all the stares and Indian men trying to bump into me all the time (bumpers up - I say). But yesterday one man who looked intent and unfriendly walked by our sitting Jeep a few times after Lee had gotten out to stretch his legs. The man stared the entire time. I had sunglasses on and ignored him. He walked to the front of the jeep obviously looking for the driver, then into a storefront door to find him, all the while making sure I was still there. Then he began talking to the timid teenager in the front seat that spoke almost no English. He was obviously asking about me - the kid kept saying I don't know - I don't know. I made sure my door was locked and then Lee leaned in on his door. "He's asking about me." I said. Lee looked over at him across the Jeep and scowled and shook his head saying NO. The man shook his head back and walked away from the vehicle. Yay Lee! I was in no shape to deal with that situation. If the driver had been around, I'm sure he would have told me to get out of the jeep and at least take a picture with the guy - and he would have tried to receive a pretty rupee from it. Not that I would do it.

I was never in any danger or felt unsafe at any time. It was just the ridiculousness of the situation and my low tolerance of it feeling so ill. We laughed about it for a while afterwards. When you feel healthy you have so much more confidence to be assertive and handle any situation that may arise. I think I might just climb a small mountain today!


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By: Mark on March 30, 2006 - 3:08pm
Don't we feel like the princess..... Are you sure the guy wasn't asking, "Who's that weird looking girl in the car?  Keep her away from me since she looks a little ill", since it's not like he winked at you and whistled or anything.  hahaha.  I'm glad Lee is able to give the International "Evil-eye" which probably is emphasized by the fact that he's taller than most folks in that area.  I'm glad you both are feeling better now.  Hopefully you're enjoying all that delicious tea from the Darjeeling region and having less "mud butt" (as JJ calls it).  It's almost April and you've still got a ways to go...... happy travels! Cool

By: dad (not verified) on March 31, 2006 - 8:21am
it sounds like I should send you a mask with a rubber nose and some really bad make-up, then you could blend in with the locals and not stand out. Thecost of being pretty! Thanks Lee! Job well done Keep her safe.
By: leelefever on April 2, 2006 - 5:31am
Sachi, I told you that if you would have kept your mouth shut, we could of made some extra rupees. Dang.
By: Daniel (not verified) on June 7, 2006 - 12:35pm
Dear Sachi, Please give that guy a break! and don't be judgmental and have preconceived notion about somebody you don't know. After all, it is you who is traveling to his country, culture, and system. It is sad to hear your unsubstantiated notion of a poor fellow who may well have been talking completely about some other subject matter beside you and your so called prettiness. I am ashamed to know about your self centered and egotistical cry. Get a life !
By: leelefever on June 7, 2006 - 8:10pm
Sachi's post seems to have gotten you worked up a bit. Before you spew any more judgements on my wife, let me suggest a couple of things. First, I suggest that you put youself in the shoes of a young women traveling through a remote village in a developing country. In a perfect world we would all be non-prejudiced and assume that everyone wants to be friends, but this view can get you into trouble-quickly. Funny thing, I don't remember running into you that day? Were you there? My second suggestion, and this goes for all comments you leave, is to read the entry twice before commenting. Sachi said nothing about "prettiness", only a "pretty ruppee", meaning a tip in the Indian currency. Lastly, we both appreciate your direction to "get a life". A good point indeed. The life we have gotten in the last six months has taught us that it is far too easy to pass judgements about people sitting in front of a computer in the safety of home.